a college girl answered
First, did you say something that could have upset her? Worth thinking about honestly.
If you haven’t talked since she added you back, you could say: “hey, is everything ok? i noticed you unadded then added me back and wanted to see what was going on.”
I don’t think pretending like nothing happened is a good idea.
asked in january 2026 and answered in the app by a college girl on our team. names removed, lightly edited for clarity. one girl’s honest take, not professional counseling.
